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Invite the friends and family members who have been there for you throughout your divorce. Just invite those who will support you and encourage you during this gathering, rather than people who are going to pass along negative energy to you. This is not the time to bring up the past but to simply move ahead.
If you are hosting this gathering in your home, plan a menu of light drinks and appetizers. You will want people to stick around and enjoy themselves for a little while at your gathering.
As you move forward, you will have the love and support of your friends. Ask them to write notes of encouragement to you that you can look at in the future and that will carry you forward when you are down in the future. You can set up a vase of tree branches and place the vase on a table surrounded by notes with holes punched through them and strings. Your guests can write words on the notes and then hang them on the tree. You can read one or two every day to remind yourself of those who love you.
There aren’t any divorces that are painless or easy, and that is why it is good to celebrate the life you have right now with a divorce party. You don’t have to call it a “divorce party” because you are not celebrating the end of a marriage and love that didn’t work out. Instead, you can gather your friends together for a party that celebrates you and moving forward despite the mistakes of the past. You will feel good surrounded by the family members and friends who love you and who want to see you succeed in your next steps ahead.
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